缘分天注定

Jonathan Trager,prominent television producer for ESPN,died last night from complications of losing his soul mate and his fiance.He was 35 years old and soft-spoken and obsessive.Trager never looked the part of a hopless romantic.But in the final days of his life,he revealed an unknown side of his psyche.This hidden quasi-Jungian persona...surfaced during the Agatha Christie-like pursuit for his long-reputed soul mate,a woman whom he only spent a few precious hours with.Sadly,the protracted search ended late Saturday night...incomplete and utter failure.Yet even in certain defeat,the courageous Trager secretly clung to the belief...that life is not merely a series of meaningless accidents or coincidences.Uh-uh.But rather it's a tapestry of events...that culminate in an exquisite,sublime plan.Asked about the loss of his dear friend, Dean Kansky,the Pulitzer Prize-winning author and executive editor of the New York Times,described Jonathan as a changed man in the last days of his life."Things were clear for him,"Kansky noted.Ultimately, Jonathan concluded that if we are to live life in harmony with the universe,we must all possess a powerful faith in what the ancients used to call"fatum,"-what we currently refer to as destiny.

壮纳顿-卓加，有线体育台优秀监制。即失红颜，复破婚盟，肝肠寸断，遂于昨宵撒手尘寰，享年三十有五，壮君文质彬彬，公尔忘私，平素言行，绝无痴态，孰料，阳寿将尽之际．流露鲜为人知的浪漫，刹那惊绝，化作萦回梦魂，遍觅芳踪，历尽一波三折，本性情怀，浮现无遗，呜呼，踏破铁鞋。方觉一番心事付东流，语云：匹夫可以夺其爱，不可夺其志，壮君依然信．人生际遇绝非偶然，冥冥中，上苍早已安排周详，丝毫不爽，其友文坛巨掰，时报主笔甸恩谓.
壮君晚年脱胎换骨，有所顿悟，一以蔽之．欲臻天人合一，须信一字，此字古已有之，于今亦然，唯“缘”而已。

it's bad.it's not a romatice story at all.it's not what the best man should do,and it's not what a 35-yeal-old dude who is gonna be married should do.it's not even funny.
serendipity？fuck that.
i only feel bad for that easten music man and that girl Jonassen's gonna marry.
btw,Jonassen?it's so much like a girl's name!
can 6-hour happiness or fate thing which they call it last long?how come a 35-year-old guy doesn't know that?!
oh,i got it.is this story just a fairytale?

yeah,he is a jackass.

　　很早的片子，但最近才才买来ＤＶＤ看．一个是＜Ｃon Air＞中干练帅气的探员，一个是在＜Underworld＞里酷得不行的性感吸血鬼,是我喜欢的组合．其实这部影片的很多桥段都可以在<Sleepless in seattle>,<You've got a mali>等同类型的爱情片中寻得,<向左走，向右走>中也有类似擦间而过的缘分。尽管拍得很媚俗，但也能带来充分的愉悦感．谁不喜欢浪漫温馨的故事呢？即使编剧很刻意的制造浪漫．
　　爱情的部分不需多言，印象最深刻的台词是死党为男主角写的“悼言”，实则为本片主题的精髓所在。中文字幕翻译得恰到好处：

Dean: Jonathan Trager, prominent television producer for ESPN, died last night from complications of losing his soul mate and his fiance. He was thirty-five years old. Soft-spoken and obsessive, Trager never looked the part of a hopeless romantic. But in the final days of his life, he revealed an unknown side of his psyche. This hidden quasi-Jungian persona surfaced during the Agatha Christie-like pursuit for his long, reputed soul mate; a woman whom he only spent a few precious hours with. Sadly, the protracted search ended late Saturday night in complete and utter failure. Yet even in certain defeat, the courageous Trager secretly clung to the belief that life is not merely a series of meaningless accidents or coincidences. Uh-uh. But rather, it is a tapestry of events that culminate into an exquisite, sublime plan. Ask about the loss of his dear friend, Dean Kansky, the Pulitzer Prize-winning author and executive editor of New York Times, described Jonathan as a changed man in the last days of his life. Things were clearer for him, Kansky noted. Ultimately, Jonathan concluded that if we are to live life in harmony with the universe we must all possess a powerful faith, of what the ancients used to call fatum; what we currently refer to as destiny.
乔纳森卓加，有线体育台优秀监制，即失红颜，复破婚盟，肝肠寸断，遂于昨宵撒手尘寰，享年三十有五，壮君文质彬彬，公尔忘私，平素言行，绝无痴态，孰料，阳寿将尽之际．．．．．．流露鲜为人知的浪漫，刹那惊绝，化作萦回梦魂，遍觅芳踪，历尽一波三折，本性情怀，浮现无遗，呜呼，踏破铁鞋．．．．．．方觉一番心事付东流，语云：匹夫可以夺其爱，不可夺其志，壮君依然坚信．．．．．．人生际遇绝非偶然，冥冥中，上苍早已安排周详，丝毫不爽，其友文坛巨掰，时报主笔甸恩谓．．．．．．壮君晚年脱胎换骨，有所顿悟，一以蔽之．．．．．．欲臻天人合一，须信一字，此字古已有之，于今亦然，唯“缘”而已。

看这个电影的时候我有以下疑问:
1.真的有一见钟情么?
2.真的有命中注定么?
3.短暂的恋情也让人念念不忘么?

美国人似乎很热中于炮制这样的浪漫爱情.包括西雅图不眠夜,电子情书,before the sunset,before the sunrise,恋爱假期等等.剧中的主人公是彻头彻尾的浪漫主义，为爱疯狂，痴迷，完全不顾现实。为爱到处跑不说了，还放弃现实中的爱人，只为那一个SOULMATE。西方人很讲这个.灵魂伴侣，听起来多么美妙啊。所谓真正的爱情，不正是两个人灵魂的相吸吗？而现实中那些恋爱结婚的人，又有多少真正把爱情放在第一呢？曾经以为只要有爱情就有全世界的信念是不是在现实面前也软弱无力呢？我只想说的是，爱是一种信仰，而我们，不能让信仰倒塌。相信爱情，便是相信生活的美好。

那么真的有一见钟情么？电影里那唯美的浪漫场景真的像梦一样。也许正是那梦一样的美妙，才让我们的男女主人公念念不忘。那一个热情的幽默的深情的男子，那一个美丽的优雅的神秘的女子。多么美！

其实，我想说的就是：得不到的才最美。这是恋爱的真理。一朵花，远远望去，姿态优雅，美伦美奂。你无法走近，只能远远欣赏它。你对它赞不绝口，做梦都梦到它。也许有一天，当你真正走近，你会发现它身上的瑕疵，当你把它摘下，放在自己家里天天看，那花或许有被看厌的危险。

为了得不到的，有人遵从现实的法则，有人甘心为爱冒险。杜丽娘为爱死为爱生，令人荡气回肠。沈世均跟一个女人结了婚，心里却深爱着另一个女人。

我敬佩为爱疯狂的人，因为这样的人在现在这个现实主义的社会已经不多了。有人缺乏胆量，有人缺乏热情，有人也许只是缺乏时间。当然，我指的是两个真正相爱的人的疯狂，而不是一方毫无感觉，另一方纠缠不休。

反观电影，他们的缘分其实并非天注定。因为最后他们的重逢完全是两个人共同努力的结果。所以在爱情的道路上，我是说，想要得到真爱，光有缘分是不够的，还要相信爱情，相信自己，勇往直前，如此方可。

电影结尾处有一段翻译的很有意思

悼词
庄纳顿. 卓加，有线体育台优秀监制，既失红颜，复破婚姻，肝肠寸断，遂于昨宵 撒手尘寰，享年三十有五。庄君文质彬彬， 公而忘私， 平素言行， 绝无痴 态 。熟料阳寿将尽之际，流露鲜为人知的浪漫。刹那惊艳，化作萦回梦魂，遍觅 芳踪，历尽一波三折，本性情怀，浮现无疑。呜呼，踏破铁鞋，方觉一番心事悉 付东流。语云：匹夫可以夺其爱，不可夺其志。庄君依然坚信：人生际遇绝非偶 然，冥冥中，上苍早已安排周详，丝毫不爽。其友文坛巨掣、时报主笔甸恩谓： 庄君晚年脱胎换骨，有所顿悟。一言以蔽之，欲臻天人合一，须坚信一字，此字 古已有之，于今亦然，唯“缘”而已。